Who cheats the more, men or women? »

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For ages, there has been a major contest to ascertain which of the gender cheats the most in relationships. Well, I’m confused about so many things in life, but never have I been confused about this subject of discuss. The female gender cheats the most. I repeat again, the female gender cheats the most. I have my reasons, so kindly read on before crucifying me.

Sex for men is physical and they hardly attributes any meaning to it. A hard man just needs somewhere slippery and wet to insert his manhood and move on with no strings attached. A man in a relationship can stay faithful to his woman provided he gets regular sex from her without having to beg for it or do some certain rituals to get laid. A man in a relationship with no regular sex tends to keep a side chick just for that purpose and would stay committed to his woman regardless the fact that he’s sleeping with someone else. A man in a relationship wants his woman to be a 7in1; which means he needs his woman to be good in bed, good in the kitchen, good manners, inner and outer beauty, relates with his family appropriately, idea driven, and God fearing… Have these qualities and your man is yours to keep.

A man in a relationship is easy and cheap to maintain: small things and cheap things makes a man hard. He feels and react to things around him by what he can see and touch. A man do not fantasize but realistic in his approach and doings, so cheating to a man is when he gets emotionally involved with someone else asides from his woman; which is why a man can decides from day one who to marry and would stay committed without looking back.

Constantly give your man good food and he will never eats outside and if he must, you will be in the know-how as his Lady. Women who are 7in1 sustains relationships the more, radiates a high level of happiness, and tends to live longer alongside their partners. Lastly, the attributes of a woman determines the longevity of the man under her care…

On the other hand, women are far differ from men in relationships. A woman is structured to react to emotions and feelings rather than physical things compared to men; which is why a woman can hardly have sex with a man without a trace of emotional attachment or history of cordiality involved. A woman needs reasons to have sex even when they’re horny and craving for it. A woman can comfortably keeps ten different men in her life, and stay committed to all of them without feeling as if she’s cheating on any, and this is because she naturally feels like she’s doing the right thing and nothing wrong with that as long as she’s not having sex with all of them, but one.

You cannot get a woman wet by physical attractions: if you like buy her an island, all you will get is “awwwwwwn, thank you honey” the excitement and laughter is all she’s got to give as appreciation. You can only get a woman wet by getting into her mind and messing with her feelings in the most silly way that she wouldn’t be able to resist your charm. For women, sex takes place in the mind before it happens in the physical.

Cheating to a woman is when she has sex with someone else asides from her man. A woman can love more than one man and still acts normal about it without any trace from any of the men in her life. Women have this saying: “I just wanted to be sure he’s the one” and that it why it takes longer for a lady to determine whom to marry, hence they do this.

A lady in love with two men would certainly have to decide who to get married to at some point, and when this time comes, this happens: the first man in her life who has been getting the regular sex would be marked as done and dusted. They attention will now be diverted to the other man for her to be sure if the man already marked done and dusted is truly the one, and she wouldn’t be missing out on anything if she settles for him. For a lady to fall in love, it requires lots of emotional investments and communication engineering; which the man already have. Now there’s just one more thing to thick. Sex.

The lady would then create an avenue for her to have sex with this other man just be fully sure if she’s making the right choice. 9 out of 10 will always goes back to the initial man already marked done and dusted and would later regrets doing it in the first place.

When it comes to emotions men are more faithful and loyal to their partners, and when it comes to sex women are more faithful and loyal, but at the end mess it up with the wrong reasons. Women are relaxed cheats in relationships, while men are tensed when they cheat on their partners.

We all have our experiences and will definitely react to this topic in a different way. But trust me, these words are true.

Kelvin Oluseyi Eleta,
Writer, Author, Content Developer.
Abuja, Nigeria.