Domestic Violence and the many untimely deaths »

By Miracle Daniel

Talking about Domestic abuse or violence is one topic we will keep talking about and preaching every single day, and the results will still be same. Nobody have a say to decide your actions or what exactly you do.

I wonder why people will come up and say “Whatever I do with my life is my business and not the society, how I dress or address people is my sole responsibility”. Some even say I don’t give a danm about what the society say about me but it amazes me why when it comes to the matter that threatens life we become suddenly concerned about what people say, the society and even down to what the religious community will say.

Threat to life is something that don’t just happened all of a sudden by a person, they are signs, a man or woman who talks back at you or randomly say “I will slap you, hit you randomly”, all these are little signs that the person you are involved with is an abusive person.

Domestic violence is violence committed by someone in the victim’s domestic circle. This includes partners and ex-partners, immediate family members, other relatives and family friends. The term ‘domestic violence’ is used when there is a close relationship between the offender and the victim.

But the common violence exhibited is by partners, either sex partners, boyfriend/girlfriend or husband and wife all these fall under the simple terms of Sex partners.

Any from of abuse can lead to death, both male and female are constantly been abuse but so unfortunately that only Woman been abuse are mostly heard but the bitter truth is men are also on a daily basis been abused.

With all Due respect don’t live with a woman or man who disrespect the calling you have on your life, we take it for granted but the truth is, it all start from there .
We first became human before we become aligned with the Doctrine of Religion
I am a strong believer of the Gospel of Christ but Jesus in himself came in human body first before he was able to manifest his calling to higher glory.

We must first know that been alive is the sole grace of God and determining how long his mercies will last over us is also our responsibility to take.

Rush to enjoy Companionship by opposite sex or been among have caused our youth and teenager of our sight, we no longer look ahead to some vital signs, A man or woman who constantly demand, where you are, who you talk to or places you visit are signs but we all term it Love, and we are so Blinded.

You don’t stay in an insecure Relationship and call it endurance, you don’t stay In abuse relationship and marriage and say you doing this because of your children and the society, Yes we cant deny the victimization that comes with been divorced and been abused, but Hey been alive is far better than what the people will say or think.

Until we come to the realization that nobody loves you more than yourself and the world won’t shake a bit if you kick a bucket , then we will understand that we are sole responsible for anything that happens.

Don’t keep quite the church, society friends and family can’t help you, Fight, talk and Run, Even the scriptures say whatever causes you to sin should be cut off, Even God told Elijah to run away when Jezebel threatened to kill him. You can run and still be on track, you must not sigh a divorce papers , you can take a walk and still be married.

Divorce is a Sin abuse too is a greater sin because it leads to death.
This should also be an awakening to our parent that it is wrong to let your child lay hands their siblings exepecially opposite sexes. You don’t encourage your male child to hit their sister and the Reverse, when we are been cultured into this, to some reasonable extent this will coup abuses in marriage.

Teachings should be done on this, you don’t encourage anyone to hit their sisters or brothers, and teaching should be made not to endure Abuse, it false, Grace makes you wise and not foolish. God has placed before us the Decision of Right and wrong
Life and death and he said.

But however, “I beseech thee to seek life”
Seek life, seeking life means, you Run, flee when you need to because you can’t fulfill God’s calling when dead, and no matter the punishment giving to the offender, the victim is dead.

Our Family need to rise up
The Religious community, The society need to stand up and standing up not just to say NO TO Abuse, but to prefer Solutions to victims and that Solutions is showing them the place of Wisdom to FlEE
Save the Victims first before saving their Marriage.

And the person you say YES to determine if you will live long on earth or not and also determine the fulfilment of Destiny
Christianity is not stupidity. Doing purpose is not foolishness is not enough to be wise but understanding Wisdom is highly recommended.